Archive for the ‘Sex Confidence’ Category


There are a lot of things that you can do to play sexual mind games with your partner. A lot of people find themselves really wanting to get their partner’s mind racing and their thoughts jumbled while they are in the middle of the act. The best way to do this is to start early. Here are a few things that you can do during the day to get your partner excited and confused for that night.

Sexy E Mails/Texts

Send them coy texts and e mails throughout the day. This can be a great way to get them in the right mindset for what is going to happen. Just try not to be too forward or give too much away. Say little things that hint towards sex without ever mentioning it. If they accuse you of attempting to seduce them via text, then play innocent.

Send Pictures

Send them pictures that are almost sexual. The trail of clothes that you left on your way to the shower can be a good start. Take a picture of your sexiest lingerie laid out on the bed to give them something to think about. These sexy pictures that are not of you but make them think of you is a great way for you to play sexual mind games with them.

Leave Clues

When they get home for the day, leave a series of notes and clues that will slowly lead them to you waiting for them. Along the way you can leave them toys and other things that they can use for as soon as they find you.


Arranging a swinging meet tonight is something that can be a bit of a hassle. There are a lot of things that you will need to prepare and you will also have to get your guests aware. Hit up all of the swingers that you know and see if you can get any of them to come out on such short notice. Decide on a time and place and then get all of the necessary party favors for a great and sexy evening.

Decide Location

A lot of swingers will decide to have swinging meets at their own home. This way, it will be easy for you to prepare the place and you will be a lot more help when it comes to telling your guests how to get there. The only problem that you may run into with having the meeting at your home is if you happen to have any nosey neighbors that may not know about your swinging life.

Necessary Party Favors

There are some things that you absolutely cannot have a swinging party without. You will need to have some extra condoms and lube nearby as you can never have too much. A lot of people will more than likely bring their own condoms and lube but it is always a good host’s duty to provide any extra. It is also nice to have some snacks and alcohol available. Also, have plenty of fresh towels and sheets on hand.


Make sure that you have a good idea of when you want the meeting to begin and when you will want for it to end so that your guests will know.


It can be really easy to meet likeminded sexy adults for NSA fun. You will find that if you happen to be a person that is looking for some people or just one person that you can have a little bit of fun with, you will need to know where to look and exactly what it is that you are looking for. NSA can help to keep the drama and stress of a relationship out of your life so a lot of people are looking for this very thing.

Go Online

When you go online you are going to get the opportunity to see who all is out there and what it is that they are looking for. A lot of people find they are in a situation where they want to find people but don’t know where to look or don’t want to go out and look. Check out the local personals online and see if you can find anybody that catches your eye. If not, then check out some dating sites that specialize in people that are looking for the same things that you are.

Go to a Bar/Club

When you go to a bar or a club you are going to be in a room full of people that are more than likely looking for the same type of NSA fun that you are. This is a great place to meet people that are sexy and looking for a good time. Just make sure that you hint around that you are not looking for anything more than NSA fun.


There are a lot of things that you can do to make yourself feel sexy. There are a lot of people that have trouble feeling sexy sometimes. It can be hard to want to put forth any effort in making yourself feel sexy if you are just not feeling it in general. However, here are a couple of easy things that you can do quickly give yourself a boost.


It is all about what you wear and how you feel. Think about whatever makes you feel the sexiest. Whether it be a well-worn pair of jeans and a T shirt or your favorite suit or sexy high heels you will find that this can be a great start in making yourself feel sexy. Whenever a person has on the clothing that they are the most comfortable and confident in they tend to see themselves as sexy.


Sometimes you just need a change. Look through some hair magazines or online and find a haircut that suits you. Make sure that you go with a cut that is going to be flattering to your face shape. Try to find a person that has a similarly shaped face as you and find a cut that works. A new hairstyle to play with can really boost your confidence.

Fake it until you feel it

Sometimes you just have to fake it. Walk with your shoulders back and your head up and soon you will begin to notice the attention that you are getting from this act. In no time you will be doing this naturally.